Softness
- Lila Tzoli
- Mar 16
- 2 min read
In a world that often celebrates strength, independence, and ambition, it’s easy to feel like you need to adopt a tough exterior to succeed. Many of us, especially women, have learned to put on a “masculine front” to navigate our careers, relationships, and daily lives.
In a world that often equates success with relentless striving and pushing, we have been conditioned to believe that hard work is the only path to achievement. This conditioning not only affects how we interact with the world but also how we treat ourselves. We may become our own harshest critics, believing that to succeed, we must constantly be tough and unyielding. However, this approach can lead to burnout, stress, and a sense of isolation. This belief can lead us astray, causing us to overlook the healing benefits of being soft with ourselves.
What if, instead, we could redefine strength to include softness and gentleness?
The essence of this Softness Spirit Lady invites you to embrace the profound power of softness in your life. This Spirit Lady encourages you to pay attention to how you speak to yourself. Words like “I am worthless” are harsh and damaging. Instead, choose thoughts that are more nurturing and soft. Embrace the softness in your inner dialogue, allowing compassion to replace judgment.
When faced with tasks, invitations, and action plans that feel off or burdensome, she encourages you to ask yourself:
Does this feel soft or hard? Or how can I approach this with more softness?
Similarly, when communicating your preferences or setting boundaries, reflect on how you can express your truth in a softer way.
Her guidance encourages you to practice softness through your thoughts, words, and actions, creating a more loving relationship with yourself and others.
Spend some time with your heart, softening the spaces around it and giving yourself the gift of tenderness. You are doing so well. Slow down, soften, listen and pay more attention to the essential in your life – the people you love, nature, your body and the wonder of the passing moment.
This Spirit Lady also brings a soothing balm to the parts of you that have endured harshness, rudeness, and abruptness. She envelops those memories and experiences that made the world feel like a hard and unforgiving place—where fear grew so large that you began to push others away to protect yourself from further hurt.
Through her presence, this Spirit Lady activates a profound softness in your life, holding the power to heal your wounded parts. She helps you realize that what you truly needed was compassion and understanding. And often, the individuals who caused you pain were themselves in need of this very softness—an approach and medicine they never received.
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